Why Traditional Marriage Counseling Will NOT Fix A Relationship After The Affair
"The Solution To Saving A Marriage After An Affair Is NOT Marriage Counseling, Here’s Why…"
Sara felt disgusted, unattractive and hopeless when she discovered Chris sexting other women and watching porn sites, despite promising he had given that up.
When I was introduced to Sara and her husband Chris they were completely stuck, confused and finding it hard to get past the affair.
Sara felt disgusted, unattractive and hopeless when she discovered Chris sexting other women and watching porn sites, despite promising he had given that up.
When I was introduced to Sara and her husband Chris they were completely stuck, confused and finding it hard to get past the affair.
Literally, they were so lost, fed up and absolutely exhausted talking about the affair and going around and around in circles… they were unsure whether they were better off parting ways and getting divorced.
Chris had been sexting another woman at the beginning of their relationship and watching porn. He has promised Sara that it meant nothing and seeing how upset she was he would never ever do this again, that he loved her, chosen to marry her and he would put these old batchelor habits of watching porn behind him.
A month before Sara reached out to me she had seen a facebook message pop up on Chris’s phone and he had been in touch with a girl from his past.
Sara felt instantly worried and hurt again, the old feelings came flooding back mainly because she hadn’t dealt with them, she buried them and seeing this sent her into a negative cycle again.
She found herself waking up in the night to check his phone and lap top for signs of cheating. She made a note of a list of women’s names and numbers and began stalking them on facebook and Instagram. She felt like a shell of herself and didn’t like who she was turning into.
Sara felt so down because she was also attacking herself she felt ugly, fat, old.
As she began to look into Chris’s internet history for more clue’s she discovered more behaviour that alarmed her. Countless porn sites in his browser history and websites of foreign women offering extra services online.
She felt sick, who have I married she thought. Has the whole relationship been a complete lie? Did he ever love me and find me attractive? The relationship is hopeless she thought, I’ll never be able to trust him again.
Chris apologised for watching porn occasionally and not being able to stop completely but assured her he had not cheated, not been flirting or showing interest in any women and certainly not been hiring any online services.
They were stuck and not getting anywhere, so they went for a traditional marriage counselling session. Which was an absolute disaster they paid $390 for a 2 hour session where they just repeated the exact same conversation they had been having at home.
They had wasted 4 hours of their time with the commute and left feeling worse. To top it off they had a massive row on the way home as so much resentment had come up they were ready to call their marriage quits after 12 years of marriage.
It was falling apart more and more despite several attempts at patching things up... which always ended in what seemed like an even bigger problem between them!
Neither felt like the were being heard or their feelings mattered in the relationship
Can You Relate To This Kind of Situation?
Regardless of whether it was a physical, emotional or internet affair?
A lot of nights were spent apart with Chris sleeping on the couch… or in the spare room.
Small things turned to silly arguments which quickly became bigger issues.
Tension, arguing and shouting had become normal occurrences.
Both Chris & Sara were desperately seeking to be respected and loved, neither felt like they were being given the chance to be heard.
The more that they tried to talk, the worse things got and the distance between them just increased... more and more.
Everything they had tried to remedy their marriage in the form of counseling and self-help literature had done NOTHING to help them.
A drastic change was needed in their relationship but neither knew how to achieve that.
Their relationship was stuck in a serious and harmful rut and neither could see the way to fix it.
I am not about to sit here and say I was able to recover their marriage from an affair in one hour, because that is certainly not the case… BUT
what I shared with this desperate couple that day, prompted them to instantly press pause on the divorce and start taking the actions to save their marriage.
In a few weeks following the steps I outlined in the audio program, there were remarkable changes visible in their marriage...
The nights spent sleeping on the couch or in the spare room were a thing of the past
The little-things-turned-to-big-issue arguments had stopped.. VANISHED!!
There was no going over the past again and again, they got comfortable closure
Their physical intimacy had been replenished
with sincere pleasure
connecting and renewed PASSION.
Trust was being rebuilt step by step, day by day… Pretty amazing right?
Last Week, I Was Invited To Chris and Sara’s Vow Renewal Ceremony!
In a few weeks following the steps I outlined in the audio program, there were remarkable changes visible in their marriage...
The nights spent sleeping on the couch or in the spare room were a thing of the past
The little-things-turned-to-big-issue arguments had stopped.. VANISHED!!
There was no going over the past again and again, they got comfortable closure
Their physical intimacy had been replenished with sincere pleasure connecting and renewed PASSION.
Trust was being rebuilt step by step, day by day… Pretty amazing right?
Last Week, I Was Invited To Chris and Sara’s Vow Renewal Ceremony!
The truth is, most people offering marriage counseling
are not trained marriage counselors.
And they are certainly not trained on how to fix a relationship after an affair!!!
They have likely received their traditional individual counselling training and simply added marriage counseling to their list of services offered…
most likely after the fact too! (not a nice thought)
What I’m saying is that the level of experience these people have in truly helping a marriage where there has been an emotional or physical affair is little to none...
And when they are offering this service, their tactics and techniques are more than likely outdated and simply no longer effective because these same techniques were simply never created to help a marriage in serious confusion!
The truth is, most people offering marriage counseling are not trained marriage counselors.
And they are certainly not trained on how to fix a relationship after an affair!!!
They have likely received their traditional individual counselling training and simply added marriage counseling to their list of services offered…
most likely after the fact too! (not a nice thought)
What I’m saying is that the level of experience these people have in truly helping a marriage where there has been an emotional or physical affair is little to none...
And when they are offering this service, their tactics and techniques are more than likely outdated and simply no longer effective because these same techniques were simply never created to help a marriage in serious confusion!
That’s Why Even The ‘Best’ Marriage Counselors Only Enjoy Such A Marginally Low Success Rate Of Around 20%... Imagine If We Held Medical Procedures To The Same Standards… It Wouldn’t Be Legal!
I can relate to this from personal experience because having such a low success rate is frustrating.
I can relate to this from personal experience because having such a low success rate is frustrating.
WHEN I FOUND OUT HE HAD SLEPT WITH A GIRL FROM WORK…
I paid for individual marriage counselling and couples counselling the counsellor was good at nodding and smiling at me but she barely said anything constructive.
She gave a sympathetic smile but no guidance on what to do to help me recover from the relationship. She pointed out that I would feel pain after his physical affair. Well that’s bloody well obvious I thought, I could have told you that myself. She didn’t give any guidance on how long or how to recover or what I could do to get the memories and images of them together out of my head. Nor did she tell him what he could do to help me.
He had cheated on me and I felt broken into a million pieces. I thought I must be rubbish in bed. My heart felt heavy and tight. Waves of pain and grief came and went and I’d burst into tears at random times of the day.
I loved him and hated him at the same time. I felt so angry that my work life, health and sleep was suffering… it all felt so incredibly unfair.
With all that being said, what I didn’t need was the counsellor to make
him feel worse or more guilty. He was making the best efforts he could to help me but I just felt numb to them.
Nor did I need him to apologise any more, he had done enough begging and apologising at home, the counsellor suggested this but again it wasn't helpful because it was keeping us stuck in the past, going over the past again and again. I needed, he needed, and we needed actions to help us move forward.
Can You Relate To My Experience?
This is why I am motivated to help people to recover their marriage after an affair.
I suffered enough and all I ever want is to help my clients feel better and save their relationship
Because I know how terrible it is that all of those techniques that are supposed to be helping couples only making things so much worse!
Once I discovered that those usual methods for marriage therapy were not working, I was convinced I could find and create a new way of helping couples recover after internet, physical and emotional affairs.
A set of tools that actually did good.
I released all the ‘traditional’ theories and techniques as they simply DON'T WORK!
And why you need to do the exact same!
I released all the ‘traditional’ theories and techniques as they simply DON'T WORK! And why you need to do the exact same!
"I reached out to Nicola after listening to her podcast show for some time. My wife had an emotional affair with someone at work and they kissed at a staff party. I signed up for her affair recovery program because I couldn’t get the images out of my head and my wife was not sure how to help me. We decided to give it a go because we have 2 children and didn’t want to break up the family, but before Nicola’s support I was finding it hard to get past the affair.
The program worked so well that in just a few weeks, we were having a great laugh together and the best sex we have had in years. It was also the first time in our
marriage that difficult conversations didn't lead to blazing rows or the silent treatment. Nicola has a down to earth approach, great strategies and offers consistent support. We are so grateful, things keep on getting better and we have finally turned a corner, I didn't think would be possible."
- Mike, Texas
The program worked so well that in just a few weeks, we were having a great laugh together and the best sex we have had in years. It was also the first time in our marriage that difficult conversations didn't lead to blazing rows or the silent treatment. Nicola has a down to earth approach, great strategies and offers consistent support. We are so grateful, things keep on getting better and we have finally turned a corner, I didn't think would be possible."
- Mike, Texas
Unhelpful information for couples trying to fix a marriage after an affair that friends or marriage counsellors may tell you...
You Need To Learn To Communicate About The Affair Better
You Need To Learn To Communicate About The Affair Better
Talking about the affair more is not going to help you unless it is matched with steps to move forward!!!
There Is Only 'One Way' To Fix
Your Marriage After An Affair
There Is Only 'One Way' To Fix
Your Marriage After An Affair
Most marriage-fixing programs claim there is only one real way to fix our marriage after the affair.
I have learnt there are infinite ways and each way needs to be given the attention it deserves.
Tools that may be handy at one area of the affair recovery process,
can often hinder another point in the affair healing process.
There is, in fact, a unique way to healing a marriage after an affair with action steps to follow.
The methods I use are tried and tested and have been working for thousands of couples. I have worked with over the years.
With my help, you will be able to identify the best way to become closer, rebuild trust and leave the past behind you. Your begin the process of healing yourselves and the marriage.
Time Is The Greatest Healer
Time Is The Greatest Healer
This is perhaps one of the most damaging, untrue statements about healing after an affair!
From my experience, couples who keep ‘putting things off’ burying their heads in work or family or other distractions are the ones who think it will work out on its own, over time.
But this is never ever the case and deep down, you already know that which is why you are here on this page because you are ready
to take a proactive approach to this situation!
All time does is pass!
Hopefully you know that if you're not willing to make changes and take the necessary forward focused steps to fixing things, all the negativity will bring your relationship down substantially, and before you know it, it may be too late to do anything about it.
It’s crucial that you put the wheels in motion to start working on
saving your marriage right away… before things get completely out of control and it is too late for any kind of repair!
"I was so surprised how well the strategies in the affair recovery audio program actually worked, I read up lots before on affairs and most of what I found said once a cheater always a cheater.
Basically saying you can't do anything or just making me out to be the bad person because I could not forgive.
I knew if I had waited for our relationship to get better without any guidance everything would have got worst.
Inside there was so much useful information given on how to create more connection, heal myself and meditations to calm my anxiety. It was well worth the money. The audios really lifted us both up and we both enjoyed doing them.
Thanks Nicola, your program changed our lives"
-Linda
My techniques can help you get off the fence, get out of confusion, work out what you want and make a real difference to your life and happiness. However impossible you may think it is to be happy or at peace right now and even if it feels like you are the only one willing to try it can work!
Some that join the program are with partners who have already long given up and they are the ones pushing to salvage the relationship still.
This is why marriage counseling is not the right cure for this situation because most therapists believe that when there is only one partner who is willing to fix the relationship, that it will be impossible.
They work off the assumption that both partners have to be ready and willing… this is not the case!
Sometimes one person needs to go first!
For me, I see marriage crisis like this and believe that when one partner changes, they can influence the other.
Surprisingly, this is why I have close to a 90% SUCCESS RATE... even if only one partner starts the affair recovery healing process! Which is why I have 3 main options for you
3 Tracks Available To You… 1 to 1 Programs:
Affair Recovery Audio Program
For one person or couple
Affair Recover Program for Singles
Single Track For Rebuilder Or Self-Healer
Affair Recovery Program for Couples
Includes 12 Hours of Individual and Joint Sessions
Start Any 1 of These 3 Tracks With These 4 Steps:
Shift Your Thinking, Focusing on What is Right Not Wrong So That You Create A Loving & Happy Marriage
Let Go Of Past Hurt and Resentments, Your Negative Spiral Of Doubts And Despair. Create A Joyful Environment For Your Marriage To Flourish.
Take Action To Bring You Closer Together, Rebuild Your Trust, and Increase Your Appreciation, Desire And Respect For Each Other.
Create A Shared Vision, Goals And Purpose For Staying Together - That You're BOTH Excited About So An Affair Will Never Happen Again and Positive Changes Last A Lifetime Rather Than Weeks Or Months.
Create A Shared Vision, Goals And Purpose For Staying Together - That You're BOTH Excited About So An Affair Will Never Happen Again and Positive Changes Last A Lifetime Rather Than Weeks Or Months.
It Was Sara Who Got The Wheels In Motion. By Finding Me Online, Joining The Affair Recovery Program And Starting The Healing Process Of Her Marriage… Alone.
Even though she believed divorce was the only option, she didn’t want to give up without trying. She felt she owed it to herself and children to try. So did Chris although he had a massive fear counselling would make things worse. After a short while, they were really happy together again and turned a corner.
Same with Mike from Texas who never thought he’d get over his wife kissing a colleague at work so quickly.
He had sleepless nights and found the meditations helped him feel calmer and back to being able to focus at work and things he enjoyed.
Two marriages quickly saved from divorce.
I’m guessing, right about now you are wondering if this can work for you and your situation right?
I’ve Seen Marriages Regain Their Life After Just About Every Issue They Go Through... It doesn’t matter what type of cheating, how long the cheating has been going on, and if only one of you want’s to fix it. With Every Couple I Continue To Help, There Is Always One Common Outcome That Seems To Make Itself Present:
Relationships Can And Do Come Back From An Affair With The Right Action.
These Couples Have Not Just Avoided The Dreaded Divorce Process But Feel Happy and Energised again.
Experiencing A Completely Transformed Relationship Closer than before…
Something They Once Thought Was Impossible.
Anatomy Of A Marriage In Crisis After The Affair
The lack of knowing how to do something inside your marriage often translates into not caring to do it by the partner who is not satisfied when it comes to affair.
This also seems to act like the proof that this partner often seeks (that the marriage is now over)
Making mistakes after the affair is often the biggest killer of marriages.
Sadly, rebuilders or people cheated on are given the wrong advice and help.
When couples celebrate their wedding day, the last thing they are expecting is for the marriage to end because of an affair and when people rank their priorities in life, marriage always seems to be in the top 2 or 3 on that list.
But, the problem is that affairs are happening more and more these days with the internet / phone addiction and the advertising bombardment that something new will make life better. This is not making any excuses or condoning behaviour.
The only way to recover from an affair is to take responsibility…
And when you take responsibility you take action!
And when you take responsibility you take action!
Does This Resonate With You?
As inaction is the real killer of marriages, not the affair it’s what happens after that causes more pain, more resentment and unhelpful advice or counselling makes things worse.
It’s also important to note that cracks in a marriage do not simply appear in the blink of an eye.
The issues and the problems are a collective accumulation which takes place over a period of time.
So there needs to be more than affair talking, there needs to be positive steps to change a marriage.
There is no ‘one size fits all’ approach to affair recovery so if you can afford it 1:1 affair support is always best with an expert who has a track record in this. If your funds are limited right now the affair recovery audio program is a great option.
The reason my audio program is so effective is because I recognise that what can be helpful and resolve an issue in one stage may be completely counterproductive in another stage. So what I have done is make sure each stage has a separate and unique path in dealing with the problems.
There is no ‘one size fits all’ approach to affair recovery so if you can afford it 1:1 affair support is always best with an expert who has a track record in this. If your funds are limited right now the affair recovery audio program is a great option.
The reason my audio program is so effective is because I recognise that what can be helpful and resolve an issue in one stage may be completely counterproductive in another stage. So what I have done is make sure each stage has a separate and unique path in dealing with the problems.
The Affair Recovery Program has been Tried & Tested To Work For Clients All Over The World For The Past 9 Years!
It’s Not About Making Sure You Do Not Get A Divorce… It’s About Forging The Marriage You’ve Always Dreamed Of!
You cannot simply want to avoid getting a divorce.
No one should want or accept an indifferent or so/so marriage relationship.
Many couples think that their marriage issues are because they are not meant to have an exceptional marriage, but rather an ‘average’ one.
This could not be more untrue because no one should have to or need to believe they need to ‘settle’ for a less-than-great marriage relationship this is what I focus on!
Actually, this is my ideal objective for your marriage!
I will not be happy until as many couples as possible are getting everything out of their marriages they always dreamt of getting, laughter, fun, great conversation, passionate sex life (if that’s what you want 😊).
Healing to an average position is simply not enough for me.
I have been fortunate enough to assist thousands of couples in regenerating their relationships and...
I'll continue helping thousands more get the marriages they always wanted!
It is for this reason you can get my affair recovery program which is a unique step by step marriage transformation system!
I have been fortunate enough to assist thousands of couples in regenerating their relationships and...
I'll continue helping thousands more get the marriages they always wanted!
It is for this reason you can get my affair recovery program which is a unique step by step marriage transformation system!
With over 21 Audio’s and PDF work sheets and 9 guided life changing meditations total 30 audios to guide you forward not backwards, which marriage counselling often can.
Like I was mentioning earlier on, I was genuinely appalled to find how many (practically) useless, ‘marriage saving’ and “affair recovery” guides were available online.
Unlike The Affair Recovery Program, most of these supposed guides are in fact compiled by non-existent personas hiding behind pretty pictures. People too busy to talk to you or offering you group coaching but your marriage is completely different to other people’s and I am guessing you want to keep everything private right?
I am a real, live human being that you can actually get in touch with and talk to! I can help guide you and if you opt for 1 to 1 sessions you will have unlimited email support and private 1 to 1 sessions for 3 months! (check out the bottom of the page for details and to get started straight away).
And, the guides available online which are written by qualified professionals, are mostly based on outdated traditional theories that do not achieve more than 20% success rates.
Unlike The Affair Recovery Program, most of these supposed guides are in fact compiled by non-existent personas hiding behind pretty pictures. People too busy to talk to you or offering you group coaching but your marriage is completely different to other people’s and I am guessing you want to keep everything private right?
I am a real, live human being that you can actually get in touch with and talk to! I can help guide you and if you opt for 1 to 1 sessions you will have unlimited email support and private 1 to 1 sessions for 3 months! (check out the bottom of the page for details and to get started straight away).
And, the guides available online which are written by qualified professionals, are mostly based on outdated traditional theories that do not achieve more than 20% success rates.
It is my mission to be able to help as many couples save their marriages as possible and put the past behind them.
The truth is, you may not have the opportunity to come and see me face-to-face.
But, that does not prevent me from helping you with the guidance you need to begin saving your marriage TODAY!…
You can speak with me one to one privately online or get the affair recovery program.
Don’t Just Take My Word For It…
"We tried to solve all of our issues on our own for a few months, but it didn't work, we kept having the same issues come up time and time again and the same conversations about the infidelity. Traditional marriage counselling was pushing us further apart.
At first, my husband was reluctant because he has no free time but we both knew something had to change. We looked at the Audio Set and decided that we would start here as it worked for his busy schedule and was such a reasonable price. The information
us connect and also helped me to let go of past hurt for good. Things have been going great since we made the commitment to implement the steps. We've become closer, laugh and chat again like we did when we first met!
Thank you Nicola!"
- Deanna, Croydon, London
"We tried to solve all of our issues on our own for a few months, but it didn't work, we kept having the same issues come up time and time again and the same conversations about the infidelity. Traditional marriage counselling was pushing us further apart.
At first, my husband was reluctant because he has no free time but we both knew something had to change. We looked at the Audio Set and decided that we would start here as it worked for his busy schedule and was such a reasonable price. The information us connect and also helped me to let go of past hurt for good. Things have been going great since we made the commitment to implement the steps. We've become closer, laugh and chat again like we did when we first met!
Thank you Nicola!"
- Deanna, Croydon, London
Just Some Of The Things You Will Learn…
1
The mistakes people tend to make after an affair
5
How embarking on marriage counseling can be a danger to your relationship and future.
9
How to change perspectives within the relationship to shift your relationship from average to exceptional.
13
Why anger and bitterness are detrimental to a relationship and ensuring this doesn't do damage to your health and closeness long-term.
2
The “genuine” untold secrets to a healthy, stable, loving marriage.
6
How you can work on saving your marriage today, perhaps even this hour!
10
How to get the relationship momentum going in the right way, sometimes even with instant effect!
14
What the ‘essential communication tips are for after affair recovery and why they are important and how they will transform your marriage!
3
How to recover and turn the situation around.
7
The guide to not getting caught up in the emotion but learning to take action!
11
Why bickering and fighting is a complete waste of time and the incredible simple way to get around it.
15
Why ‘low mood therapy’- focusing on the bad, is not the best route to happiness and why ‘high mood focused therapy' can make the difference in your relationship.
4
Why ‘talking over the past’ isn’t always the solution.
8
That being truly intimate is a great deal closer than you realise and how to achieve it!
12
How to act and become a proper team, even when it feels you are dealing with the affair at polar opposite ways.
16
Basically, how to get the marriage you and your partner have always dreamed about having, YOUR reality.
Just Some Of The Things You Will Learn…
1
The mistakes people tend to make after an affair
2
How embarking on marriage counseling can be a danger to your relationship and future.
3
How to change perspectives within the relationship to shift your relationship from average to exceptional.
4
Why anger and bitterness are detrimental to a relationship and ensuring this doesn't do damage to your health and closeness long-term.
5
The “genuine” untold secrets to a healthy, stable, loving marriage.
6
How you can work on saving your marriage today, perhaps even this hour!
7
How to get the relationship momentum going in the right way, sometimes even with instant effect!
8
What the ‘essential communication tips are for after affair recovery and why they are important and how they will transform your marriage!
9
How to recover and turn the situation around.
10
The guide to not getting caught up in the emotion but learning to take action!
11
Why bickering and fighting is a complete waste of time and the incredible simple way to get around it.
12
Why ‘low mood therapy’- focusing on the bad, is not the best route to happiness and why ‘high mood focused therapy' can make the difference in your relationship.
13
Why ‘talking over the past’ isn’t always the solution.
14
That being truly intimate is a great deal closer than you realise and how to achieve it!
15
How to act and become a proper team, even when it feels you are dealing with the affair at polar opposite ways.
16
Basically, how to get the marriage you and your partner have always dreamed about having, YOUR reality.
The Affair Recovery Program Will Assist You To Get To Get Yourself And Marriage Back On Track.
Help you to Feel Alive Again
The Affair Recovery Program Will Assist You To Get To Get Yourself And Marriage Back On Track.
Help you to Feel Alive Again
Because this is a program offered in a digital format, you are able to INSTANTLY access your content… no matter what time it is where you are!
Your purchase is completely private and will be accessible on your computer once you download it in under 10 minutes!
And… because there are no shipping fees or printing costs, I am excited to be able to offer this program to you significantly cheaper than what you might be expecting to pay for all that marriage goodness compiled into one resource.
I give you 21 audio lesson’s and worksheet PDF’s to go with them to get into the right actions to save your marriage, to heal and become free of the affair baggage.
Plus 9 mind-changing and calming meditations to get a better nights sleep, switch your thinking from negative affair thoughts and regret to the future, to express your love and get out of numbness and to feel more confident in yourself and body.
Sound Good? But You Will Need To ACT FAST!
Sound Good? But You Will Need To ACT FAST!
Let me explain why.
The longer it takes you to take action against the perils in your marriage, the smaller chance you have of saving it.
You see, a relationship in crisis like that is not a static occurrence which means that just because they are not getting better, it means they are getting worse.
You need to take the appropriate action against this, quickly! I’ve seen couples who wait and wait after an affair and the pain get’s worse.
Think about it along these lines:
The cost of one hour of therapy is roughly $80 to $200 (multiplied by 50, being the number of sessions you may undertake over the next year or two) and you are looking at a cost of up to $20,000 to rescue your marriage!
Or, the average cost of divorce (around $30,000) not forgetting the continuous losses & emotional turmoil and then maybe even some MORE therapy…
But the cost of being in an extraordinary, healthy, HAPPY marriage?
PRICELESS!!!
Before I started working with Nicola, I felt drained and confused. If I had continued down the path I was on I would have left my marriage, family, friends, and community due to embarrassment. I didn’t know how to fix the relationship after I cheated.
The thing about Nicola is that she is warm, kind, understanding, compassionate, and creates a safe environment to share your most personal and guarded challenges.
The privacy to have the online calls from your home or car, also were a great comfort to me. She helped me decide if I wanted to save my marriage and how to go about it.
I'd recommend Nicola to anyone who is struggling in their marriage because of an affair.
- Patrick, Spring Valley, New York
Before I started working with Nicola, I felt drained and confused. If I had continued down the path I was on I would have left my marriage, family, friends, and community due to embarrassment. I didn’t know how to fix the relationship after I cheated.
The thing about Nicola is that she is warm, kind, understanding, compassionate, and creates a safe environment to share your most personal and guarded challenges.
The privacy to have the online calls from your home or car, also were a great comfort to me. She helped me decide if I wanted to save my marriage and how to go about it.
I'd recommend Nicola to anyone who is struggling in their marriage because of an affair.
- Patrick, Spring Valley, New York
Only $297 For Affair Recovery Audio Program:
21’s Audios with PDF’s Plus 9 Guided Meditations
$1,497 For Single Track:
5 Hours Private 1:1 Affair Recovery Coaching & Affair Recovery Audio Program
Plus 2 Months Unlimited
Email Support
$2,997 For Couples Track:
10.5 Hours Private 1:1 Affair Recovery Coaching (Individual and Joint Sessions & Affair
Recovery Audio Program
Plus 3 Months Unlimited
Email Support
Here’s What’s Included In Affair Recovery Program:
Affair Recovery Foundation
Your relationship reflects back to you in the way you believe, think and feel about yourself, your relationship and your partner.
In this section, you will learn everything you need to know about how to create a closer, happier and more passionate relationship, how to manifest more love and passion and how to bring about change in your partner. You will know exactly how to feel more fulfilled in your life and relationship.
Be prepared to learn deep, life-changing yet profoundly simple ideals.
Removing The Blocks To Love
When we are disconnected from love, we are left feeling unloved, lonely, uncertain and like we doubt just about everything. All of these are characteristics of being disconnected from love.
In this section, you will be introduced to the concept of, when we feel disconnected from love we do not have love within for ourselves, we feel something is missing and we don't feel whole.
You will also learn that this wholeness you search for cannot be found in anyone or something else. Connecting to the love inside us is the start to finding wholeness and in turn removing the blocks to love and stopping things like angry and over emotional outbursts that can get the better of us, or destroy the respect that others have for us or that we have for others.
Stop the feelings of helplessness or that it is out of your hands
and see your relationship get its life back!
Clearing For Deeper Love
It is essential to address the past and our negative thoughts and limiting beliefs so that they do not create the corresponding reality for us. BUT NOTE YOU DO NOT NEED TO DO THIS TOGETHER OR GO OVER THIS TOGETHER.
I will help you release this individually and privately to become free.
Changing your thought processes around the future and relationship will have a lasting impact on marriage happiness and enjoyment of life.
Learn to question your negative thoughts and change your thinking to have a renewed outlook on your marriage and how you feel about your partner!
Awaken Love Energy: Part 1
There is nothing more debilitating in a relationship than resentment. This resentment builds up to the point where misery is all you understand. It's not only bad for the relationship, but it's also draining your energy and could be taking a toll on yourself.
When you are angry at someone, you are the one that suffers and this section is dedicated to letting go of that low energy vibe and welcoming love back into your heart.
Focus on acknowledging the pain and moving beyond it because when you are love, you welcome the love into your life.
Learn to awaken your love energy and let go of all that negative self-harm.
Awaken Love Energy: Part 2
If you don't honor and express the aspects of who you really are it can make you feel completely off-balance.
The truth is we all have many sides to us and it is important to recognize them and embrace them so that we can feel whole.
It is in that wholeness that you will then be able to be and give love.
The more you are able to feel the right kind of energy, the more you can radiate that and this section is all about creating that wonderful energy and bringing that into your marriage.
Using Your Love Energy
We all have moments where it's hard to show others love. More so when we are not feeling love for ourselves.
This section deals with a critical concept known as the 'Fear-Shame' dynamic and its understanding will put a whole new perspective on your love energy and what you radiate.
PLUS, You Get The Following When You Join The Program:
9 Affair Recovery Meditations ($1,997 Value)
Being able to tune out to get back in touch with your love energy, forgive the past and move forward with love in your heart is an essential part of releasing the affair from your mind and body and will help you decide what you want to do.
This will also bring you closer together feeling free from the chains of what happened.
You will also get a powerful guided meditation to help you sleep at night, so you can feel more at peace.
On top of this you will get an anxiety calming meditation helping you to feel more confident in yourself and more positive about the future.
Top 5 Case Studies Of Successful Couples ($1,650 Value)
Learn about healing from other couples who have been close to divorce and saved it. These case studies serve as a reminder that getting through the tough times in your relationship is not only possible but so worth it!
The Journey Accountability Private Work Affair Recovery Journal ($1,850 Value)
Documenting your progress is an integral part of healing and can help you on those days that feel tougher than others to serve as a reminder of just how far you've come and the potential you still have to go further.
Love-Deepening Playbook For Awakened Couples
Everything in life needs an action plan, even when it comes to our relationships because the more proactive approach we take to become happier and closer the more whole we will feel.
Arm yourself and your marriage with the right tools to stay on the right track - for good!
The Modules Stand As The Base Of The Affair Recovery Program. It Is Designed As A Complete Formula To Revitalising And Transforming Your Relationship No Matter What Your Current Situation Is Right NOW.
The modules are only available as a complete set since their effectiveness depends on one module building on the other.
Simply download the audio recording and listen and if you go for the one to one options benefit from that support also.
Listen in your car, while exercising, traveling or in the comfort of your own home. You will be amazed by what you will learn about yourself, your spouse, and your relationship.
These tools are yours FOR LIFE.
The system is specifically targeted to recover from affairs.
So let me guide you to changing the way you think about your marriage and helping you save your relationship!
Lisa: "If I knew how effective the program would be, I wouldn't have waited 2 whole years suffering, just hoping that my husband would change. I was hesitant because I didn't know if it was too late and yet I was determined to try. It worked so well a week later he joined me any way and wanted to upgrade to the couple program. I'm so pleased I took action and signed up, as goodness knows how many more years we would have wasted being miserable around each other."
Tom: "After seeing the changes in Lisa, I became curious and thought I'd at least have a session with Nicola. I liked her no-nonsense approach and the fact that we didn't have to drag up the past. It was clear the program was forward-focused, looking at the future which I agree with and so it suited me"
So, To Recap - When You Join The Program, You Get:
Exclusive Membership
To The Affair Recovery Audio Program
Exclusive Membership
To The Affair Recovery Audio Program
9 Affair Recovery Speed Meditations ($1,997 Value)
9 Affair Recovery Speed Meditations ($1,997 Value)
Top 5 Case Studies Of Successful Couples ($1,650 Value)
Top 5 Case Studies Of Successful Couples ($1,650 Value)
The Journey Accountability Private Work Journal ($1,850 Value)
The Journey Accountability Private Work Journal ($1,850 Value)
Love-Deepening Playbook For Awakened Couples
Love-Deepening Playbook For Awakened Couples
The Love, Passion & Happiness Your Marriage Deserves (Priceless)
The Love, Passion & Happiness Your Marriage Deserves (Priceless)
Nicola Beer Support Through (Facebook Community)
Nicola Beer Support Through (Facebook Community)
Well, that’s not what I am offering You!
You get The Affair Recovery Program, bonus audios and a bonus set of rules in these 3 formats:
You get The Affair Recovery Program, bonus audios and a bonus set of rules in these 3 formats:
Only $297 For Affair Recovery Audio Program:
21’s Audios with PDF’s Plus 9 Guided Meditations
$1,497 For Single Track:
6 Hours Private 1:1 Affair Recovery Coaching & Affair Recovery Audio Program
Plus 2 Months Unlimited
Email Support
$2,897 For Couples Track:
12 Hours Private 1:1 Affair Recovery Coaching (Individual and Joint Sessions & Affair
Recovery Audio Program
Plus 3 Months Unlimited
Email Support
If you feel that this is not right for you, then please, move on. I don't need to convince you how important your marriage is...
But, if you are really ready to take action in your marriage then I can help you with the tools to do that!
Take back your marriage, starting TODAY! Your Minimum Total (No Hidden Charges) Is Only $297 For The 30 Part Set Audio
"Dear Nicola, I really can't thank you enough for the wisdom, support and guidance your audio set has provided.
My year started off with my husband wanting a divorce and now we are happily married and looking forward to what our future has instore for us.
It has been an amazing learning experience and even my husband listened and implemented the 10 key principles. I truly believe if I had not started with your steps I would no longer have a marriage but I do.
Thank you!!"
- Julie
Here’s What I’m Offering:
Try the secrets and techniques in The Affair Recovery Program. Then, on your own time and at your own pace, make use of the information to save and repair your marriage.
If you are not pleased with the improvements in your marriage, let me know and I'll refund 100% of your money - with no questions asked... for an entire 15 days.
The only requirement is that you need to use the material for a full 30 days,
just to see the power of its content and complete the work book journal.
That’s it! Give it your best shot, then I will offer you a. . .
a refund on the audio part if you are not happy and work the steps of the audio
So, as you can see, you will be making your marriage everything
you ever desired. . . at my risk. . . and certainly not yours!
100% Unconditional 15-Day Money Back Guarantee
If, for any reason (or no reason at all), you decide this program has not transformed your marriage. . .
This system has been termed as being one of the most comprehensive and crucial sources of saving marriages that exists today after an affair!
Whether you are at your wits end, unhappy or simply on the verge of divorce. . . the information contained inside will help you turn things around. . . quickly and easily.
Ed: "Nicola put me at ease from our first conversation, I felt instantly comfortable to open up about what I had done and how to rectify the situation. I was unhappy with a lot of things in my life and the relationship, but never shared them before and was surprised to find that talking helped me see things more clearly and also what I needed to do to help Susan recover. I'm not proud of what I did, I’m just thankful that Susan gave me another chance and that we are so much happier now than before."
Susan: "I was really impressed with Nicola's range of solutions to help us move forward, she helped me stop the negative inner thoughts that kept coming up and plaguing me. She also helped Ed see what he could do to best support me and managed to get him out of his depression by focusing on the relationship rather than himself. We’re so grateful for the guidance as I'm not sure how much longer I could have stayed trying on my own - it was painful."
You Can Save Your Marriage, Starting NOW…
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The Time For Taking Action Is Now. . . But Only YOU Can Take It!
I have created the resources you will need to salvage your relationship.
I have also made it so that you are able to access the information
at any place in the world any time of the day.
I have guaranteed that it will work.
But the final actions that need to be taken are yours and only you can decide if your marriage is worth the small amount of effort necessary to get out of confusion, pain and overwhelm into action to turn it around.
Join The Affair Recovery Program Today And YOU Will:
- Feel happy, more appreciated and understood
- Know how to motivate your partner to change
- Be closer and feel like a team again rather than two individuals co-existing
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Revive your physical intimacy and passion for each other
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Get over old hurt and be able to leave the past behind you
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Rebuild trust, respect and love
Relationship Transformation Specialist
I have worked with hundreds of couples over a space of 14 years.
When these couples, that have tried every type of counselling and failed, started my program, they have successfully walked away with their marriage back on track and happier than ever.
Unlike other relationships experts who come from a psycho analytical, text book background, for me, saving marriage stems from my very own personal experience being cheated on and then my own negativity making things worse.
On top of this I care because when I was 14 years old, my parents decided to get a divorce after many years of dealing with a volatile marriage. The constant bickering and resentment made it unbearable for them to get past their issues and resolve their marriage.
My Dad had a string of affairs and the conflict, poor communication led to their marriage ending. It was a very deep and personal loss for me as a young adult.
Living through this and making plenty of my own relationship mistakes, I wanted to learn what the secret was to keeping love, passion and happiness alive in a relationship.
I found the answers and created this tried and tested program. I have written in 4 international best-selling books and have been featured on ABC, CBS, NBC, Fox News Network, Wall Street Select and Saffron Media.
My passion is to help couples recover after affairs and feel good.
P.S. Maybe you have skipped to this part. So if you have. This is what I am offering. You get your hands on your own copy of The Affair Recovery Program that is 100% guaranteed to help you save your marriage... which can start right away!
Plus…You get 7 affair recovery speed Meditations worth $1,997.
Plus, the Top 5 Case Studies of Successful Couples, The Love Deepening Playbook for Awakened Couples and The Journey Accountability Private Work Journal.
And. . . if you order during this limited-time offer, you receive all of the above for only $297!
P.S. Maybe you have skipped to this part. So if you have. This is what I am offering. You get your hands on your own copy of The Affair Recovery Program that is 100% guaranteed to help you save your marriage... which can start right away!
Plus…You get 7 affair recovery speed Meditations worth $1,997.
Plus, the Top 5 Case Studies of Successful Couples, The Love Deepening Playbook for Awakened Couples and The Journey Accountability Private Work Journal.
And. . . if you order during this limited-time offer, you receive all of the above for only $297!