Where a lack of belief in our abilities or skills takes over.
Maybe you find it easier to let others take that promotion at work even though you worked harder than anyone else, or perhaps you talk yourself out of your dreams and end up making excuses not to step forward.
This can indicate low self-confidence & self-esteem.
I can say this with such confidence, because when I made this same realization, everything in my life changed.
I stopped my unhealthy habits with food, work and constantly striving for a happiness that I just could never seem to find.
I embraced my passion to help men and women across the globe to live happier love-filled and vibrant lives.
It was the catalyst that has fueled my entire personal, professional, and physical being.
And until I learned it, it was the hidden cause of most of my relationship discontent, work challenges, weight issues and general sense of fear and loneliness.
What is this magical power move that changed it all for me? I learned to increase my confidence by loving myself.
I can say this with such confidence, because when I made this same realization, everything in my life changed.
I stopped my unhealthy habits with food, work and constantly striving for a happiness that I just could never seem to find.
I embraced my passion to help men and women across the globe to live happier love-filled and vibrant lives.
It was the catalyst that has fueled my entire personal, professional, and physical being.
And until I learned it, it was the hidden cause of most of my relationship discontent, work challenges, weight issues and general sense of fear and loneliness.
What is this magical power move that changed it all for me? I learned to increase my confidence by loving myself.
If You Don’t Love All Of You, You Cannot Be Truly Confident Or be Loved By Anyone Else.
We’ve all heard this many times before but what we don’t hear is how this can be adopted in your life to make it as practical for you as possible. To actually increase confidence and make it a part of your daily life.
If we don’t value and love ourselves, if we don’t believe in ourselves, we will never be able to have the great relationships we seek or a life filled with happiness and success.
If we don’t love ourselves and are involved in romantic relationships, our partner may tell us they love us but we will not believe them or feel their love... we will constantly look for evidence to prove otherwise allowing ourselves to believe that they are losing interest and never mean what they say.
Did they initiate intimacy like they always used to in the past? If not, why don’t they want me? I am not as desirable for them as I used to be in the past.
Did they hold my hand, or pull me in for cuddles, or just show affection out of the blue like they used to? They must be losing interest, or they’ve met someone else.
Or in family relationships or friendships, they don’t call me much, must be because they don’t actually like or care about me.
We feel like we can’t express how we really feel. We worry that we will push those we love away if we show our true selves, so we do our best to act like we are perfect and it’s so tiring and draining!
Feelings of “not feeling good enough” can come to the surface when it comes to relationships, work, dating, so instead we end up settling for partners or jobs that we're not happy with.
Our health is affected as we care less about it or beat ourselves up saying we don’t look good enough.
We are constantly looking for quick fix solutions because we think that will make us feel better… you know what I mean...
...new haircuts…
...shopping sprees...
...a one night stand...
...a glass of wine that soon turns into a bottle or two...
...a late night snack that turns into a binge...
But these do nothing to fix us or how we feel and we are left feeling even worse. We will continue to feel this way until we stop looking for our happiness in other people, places or things.
Our health is affected as we care less about it or beat ourselves up saying we don’t look good enough.
We are constantly looking for quick fix solutions because we think that will make us feel better… you know what I mean...
...new haircuts…
...shopping sprees...
...a one night stand...
...a glass of wine that soon turns into a bottle or two...
...a late night snack that turns into a binge...
But these do nothing to fix us or how we feel and we are left feeling even worse. We will continue to feel this way until we stop looking for our happiness in other people, places or things.
The truth, is that loving and accepting yourself is the best thing you can do to boost your confidence. Because until you actually love you, you will not realise just how much power that holds. We always have this false illusion that our problems are caused by things external to us. Which is why we go in search of the solutions in all the wrong places.
Meanwhile, the solution is to look inward and we refuse to do this because it is scary. It means that we have to deal with things that may have caused us pain in the past and led to a lack of confidence or low self esteem.
We refuse to acknowledge self love as the powerful force it is and can be in our lives when we use it to manifest our dreams. We laugh it off and think self-love is something silly that only idiots believe in. We do everything we can to avoid acknowledging how we really feel inside.
feeling of
freedom, lightness and more than anything you feel like you have life
in you
you deserve them, you sign up for challenges and ask for promotions
and pay rises
we are at your
core. You share
how you feel, even
if the feelings are messy and embarrassing.
love you receive from others.
Never doubting
the sincerity of
the love you
receive. Never feeling like you are not worthy of that love.
the love you receive. Never feeling like you are not worth of that love.
being treated badly, or giving in to any kind of social pressure. You don't have to feel obligated to do things just because people think you
are meant to.
are meant to.
know how PAINFUL, FRUSTRATING, & ANNOYING it can be.
And... I too reached the point of being DONE with this pattern.
That's when everything changed in my life and abundance flowed to me from all directions.
your life transforms, so you better be ready...
You can leave behind the baggage and drama and feel confident in yourself whole and complete.
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You feel more at peace, accepted, and completely confident in all situations. It is the most important skill you can learn.
I believe in this because I experienced it myself and I am giving you every chance to try it so you can see how it can change your life.
and Any Heartache Is Within You And Has Been There All Along!
there was something wrong with them because they have never felt confident in themselves
or abilities in one or many areas of their life, or where they never felt truly happy or at peace.
I have watched people search far and wide to seek cures and solutions just to feel better,
more confident, and to rid themselves of the emptiness they feel inside. No matter what they do,
or how much money they spend, they never find satisfaction or answers to their lack of confidence.
I have watched people search far and wide to seek cures and solutions just to feel better, more confident, and to rid themselves of the emptiness they feel inside. No matter what they do, or how much money they spend, they never find satisfaction or answers to their lack of confidence.
Self-confidence is transformed by self-love!
The emptiness from this lack of love cannot and will not ever be filled with wealth,
material items or making ourselves ‘perfect’. That space is only filled with one thing:
The emptiness from this lack of love cannot and will not ever be filled with wealth, material items or making ourselves 'perfect'. That space is only filled with one thing:
Learning to love yourself and your confidence will sky rocket.
I know it’s going to change your life like it did mine. From my heart to yours.
and Any Heartache Is Within You And Has Been There All Along!
there was something wrong with them because they have never felt confident in themselves
or abilities in one or many areas of their life, or where they never felt truly happy or at peace.
I have watched people search far and wide to seek cures and solutions just to feel better,
more confident, and to rid themselves of the emptiness they feel inside. No matter what they do,
or how much money they spend, they never find satisfaction or answers to their lack of confidence.
I have watched people search far and wide to seek cures and solutions just to feel better, more confident, and to rid themselves of the emptiness they feel inside. No matter what they do, or how much money they spend, they never find satisfaction or answers to their lack of confidence.
Self-confidence is transformed by self-love!
The emptiness from this lack of love cannot and will not ever be filled with wealth,
material items or making ourselves ‘perfect’. That space is only filled with one thing:
The emptiness from this lack of love cannot and will not ever be filled with wealth, material items or making ourselves 'perfect'. That space is only filled with one thing:
Learning to love yourself and your confidence will sky rocket.
I know it’s going to change your life like it did mine. From my heart to yours.
-H, Abu Dhabi
I was lost, confused and exhausted when I first contacted Nicola. I felt like my life was not mine anymore and I was always having to please everyone. No matter what I did for our families it was never good enough. I was empty, fed up and couldn’t continue with the status quo. I was tired of being told what to do and always having to explain myself. I wanted to be stronger, feel confident and support myself but I had no clue how to do that. I booked a package with Nicola and it changed my life. I learnt how to say no to others and yes to myself. I’d recommend Nicola to anyone who is being controlled in a relationship and wants to find their inner strength again.
“Not being able to approach the opposite sex because I fear rejection was difficult. I was always the butt of my friends jokes because they didn’t understand that I really got bad anxiety speaking to women. Thanks to this program I am no longer doubting myself!”